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quarta-feira, 5 de dezembro de 2018

Choosing Love – Thank you Mother India/ Part 13


The Fairy Tale Beach Cabin

Day 19 (Day 6 of Wonder-Bike Adventure) – 8th May 2018


Time to move on to our next destination. We intend to get to Maravanthe Beach but will take it step by step – or wheel by wheel. First the aim is to get to Udupi, around 70 km up, and then we’ll see.

It’s early as usual – 7 am and we’re off, headed for Route 66, right beside the sea, which we sometimes see and sometimes don’t.

The heat. That’s our most impactful challenge. As the sun gets higher so does the heavily moist heat, though the advantages of being on a bike with air circulating freely are a mega plus.

We come to discover that motorbikes don’t pay tolls on highways in India! So we get to experience a better road for a while, though even highways have those huge road humps that make me have to grab onto Pedro and lift my backside off the seat so as not to feel the bump so strongly.

The heat, the road humps, the pot holes and my sore backside, the noise, the movement… There are moments when I feel overwhelmed, exhausted but never unhappy. How could I? There is so much abundance in my life each and every moment! Life is so generous to me always.



The duality of feeling these waves of overwhelm at the same time as I feel infinitely grateful, in Love, at Peace and innocently Joyful make me listen to Love’s whispering Wisdom:
What if I am in a situation I do not Love and cannot change in that moment? I can change how I feel about it by practicing unconditional acceptance. I realize very clearly that sometimes making a Conscious Choice does not change outside circumstances but invariably changes my inner world, therefore bringing me back to Love, no matter what.

Round about 50 km of progress and I just have to stop. Fortunately Pedro is also considering a stop so we find a nice place and hop off the bike for a rest at Kapu Beach. It’s around 10 am and we are already considering: what if there were a nice beach cabin right here?






We ask the young lifeguard on the beach if he knows of any place to stay and though his English is rudimentary we manage to get the message across. He asks us to follow him and indicates a sort of a resort. Not really what we are looking for. He then calls a friend who has a house right in front of the beach, but as we go in it is not exactly to our liking.

We eat an ice-cream – our first in India (other than the spoonfulls at the hotel) and elect our next stop to be Malpe, a beach another 20 km further on.

We decide to take a road that runs in between the sea on one side and a river on the other, a thin strip of land with fishermen’s villages all along.

Wow! What a scenic experience! We take off our helmets and feel the wind blowing through our hair, refreshing our hot skin and giving us a taste of its raw freedom. This no rules feeling is something so rewarding, something one can only feel in remote places where things function under a different domain of acceptability.


I am mesmerized the whole way through. We go right to the very end of the road where the strip of land ends in the sea. We soak it all in, brimming with delight.


We have to go back to catch the connection to the road that heads up and ask around for Homestays on the way, but we find only one which is too large for us. We would have loved to stay somewhere around here but apparently Homestays are not a business the people choose to explore in this area.

Malpe, on the other hand, turns out to be one of those beach holiday hubs where everyone comes to spend summertime. The beach is rife with water-sports and there are people, mostly youngsters everywhere. 

Fried fish coated in a red paste is sold at street stalls, as well as iced beverages and other seafood delicacies which we refrain from trying due to the intense heat and its possible effects on the fish and seafood sitting out in the sun.

We look around for cabins, cottages, homestays and find several but still our decision is to keep on going. There are too many people here.


We have a peek at google maps and head for a place called Beach at the White House, some 6 km away from where we are, at Hoode Beach.

When we get there it is round about lunch time – 2 pm.  The house is beautiful, large and yes, white.

A lady comes out and says she has family staying so they are not renting rooms for the night. Oh well, we’ll just have to look somewhere else.

As I am getting on the bike for us to leave, the lady comes back out and calls us. She has a friend there having lunch with them who has just restored a fisherman’s cabin, a mile down to the right. The gentleman is willing to let us stay there as inaugural guests if we don’t mind to sleep in a completely empty cabin, with no real commodities, which is the actual purpose of the place: to be authentic.

Well, why not? We ask how much it is but the gentleman, called Atul, does not want to charge us. 

The lady will give us mattresses for the floor, sheets, pillows and towels and we can stay there for free.

You see what I mean about life being always so infinitely generous when we are open to receive its unconditional gifts?

We are still a bit incredulous but super happy for this offer. We can’t thank Mr Atul and the owners of Beach at the White House enough!






Atul takes us to the cabin in just a few minutes and it is everything we had asked for! So cute and right on the beach, under the coconut trees.

Inside it is completely renovated and there is a bathroom, with running water and even a small stove which we don’t intend to use.

The floor just needs a clean up because it’s dusty from the construction work so we ask for a bucket and since all we have are some very efficient dried coconut leaf brooms, we use those to sweep the water we throw on the ground out of both the cabin’s doors. Soon it is all nice and clean and ready for the mattresses on the floor and we even have two chairs to sit outside and contemplate the sunset later on.




Idyllic. The whole scene is surreal. It seems to have jumped right out of a children’s fairy tale.

I am sooo relieved! I just couldn’t take any more riding today. Not that we rode much but the heat and the intensity of the whole experience makes me want to just stay still and rest, absorbing it all.

I comment with Pedro that this is like a bootcamp resilience experience where one hones one’s capacity to sustain extreme conditions so as to find other more pleasing ones extremely easy to bare. So when we get back home we will feel stronger but also be able to thoroughly enjoy the milder climes and intensities.



The funny thing is we cannot say that less intense is better… or worse. It’s all just life happening, or in other words, us being life.

With the sea rolling into the sand right in front of our cabin, we get ready to dive in and feel its warmth. The water here is like a gigantic warm bathtub, the waves are mild and it is so shallow we can walk far in.

A curious yet beautiful peculiarity of this cabin of ours, is that it rests right across from St Mary’s Islands, one of Karnataka’s 4 geological monuments, a rare columnar basaltic lava formation with coconut trees growing on them and this is said to be the first place that Vasco da Gama landed on back in 1498, when he arrived in India and baptized the Island he fixed a cross on as “Padrão de Santa Maria”, which is where the islands got their name from.

So we are literally standing on Indian soil, looking out onto the sea route that first connected Portugal and India.

Pedro goes to the nearby village to get some fruit and coconut oil for us to rub on our skin, as Atul has advised, for a beautiful sea spa sentation on our skin.

When he gets back we oil ourselves from head to toe and embrace the water, bathing and playing until I just feel like lying on the warm sand to dry off and Pedro prefers to sit on a chair… the sand doesn’t look all that clean.

There is a strange smell we cannot identify, because it does not seem to be coming from a pile of rubbish nearby but rather from the sea itself. We try and put a name to it but we cannot.

After lazing around for a while we need to get dressed and go up to Atul’s house. He is rebuiding an old house nearby, which he also intends to rent out when it is finished. As the sun is going down fast we have to get going so we can still catch some daylight.




The house is quaint and full of beautiful antique reminiscences, local handpainted scenes on the walls, a very well restored wooden ceiling, a small patio and a large coconut grove right in front, all the way up to the beach where Atul says he goes and bathes early every morning when he is around. Lovely place!



Once again we have a meaningful conversation about love and life and he shows us this heart shaped tree trunk he found, where he wrote “Loving is Living”.


I know I’ve said this before, but one of the things I thoroughly enjoy is being able to have deeply meaningful conversations with just about anyone we come across. The common language of our Souls seems to be clearer here and communication easily slips into what lies beyond Illusion. I suppose this is what makes people come to India from all over the world to experience a deeper connection with the Divine. This land, even the air here, is impregnated with Divine Wisdom through and through.


One of my choices when I came to India for the first time and now again, has always been to connect with its grand wisdom, with the enlightened consciousness of this abundant Mother and to receive all of its bounty as I open up fully to BE all that I Am. And I can guarantee that my Choice is completely fulfilled.

Atul invites us to go for a drink in Udupi, the nearest town, but we prefer to stay behind and go and eat some of our fruit, before going to our floor matress bed.

As we retire, here comes the thunderstorm and the heavy rain. I don’t know if it’s because of the ceiling being bare roof tiles or because of the coconut trees shaking in the wind right above our cabin, but Heaven seems to have burst open in a heavy torrent of cascading water and booming thunder, the likes of which I don’t think we had felt as strongly as today.

The power goes off because of the lightning slashing ruthlessly on the trees. It starts raining inside but we put the bucket under the dripping water and hope it doesn’t manage to get to our matress… Well, we know it won’t. It’s not consistent with our choices 😊

A group of rowdy youngsters drinking beers takes cover under the eaves of the cabin and we wonder what on earth they’re doing outside with such a powerful storm going on.

We have no electricity, the youngsters are outside laughing and talking loudly, probably unaware that there is someone staying in the cabin, as it has been empty for so long and the storm is booming. However, we do want to sleep.

Then, out of the blue, loud techno music starts pumping out of a car radio and I breathe. There is nothing I can do outside of me to change what’s going on so the only thing I can do is stay in my Serene Safe Space, in my Centre, in full Acceptance of all of the circumstances and of my choice to rest. After a while the noise stops bothering me and the next thing I know all has quietened down… except for the muezzin’s prayer call from a nearby loudspeaker, some time before sunrise.

India is a land of Acceptance of all creeds and here Hindus coexist mostly with Muslims and Catholics, though there are other faiths as well.

Acceptance is my key to bliss. After all of the night’s challenges I ask myself what’s with my Conscious Choice for Peace and Serenity and I smile as I understand that no matter what goes on outside I can reside in my permanent inner Peace, knowing that this too shall pass.

I am very very thankful to be with Pedro right now. Going through this whole experience on my own would have been even more challenging and having each other's comforting and loving presence makes all the difference.

💙💚💛💜


Read Post 1 of this series here, post 2 here, post 3 here, post 4 here, post 5 here, post 6 here, post 7 here, post 8 here, post 9 here, post 10 here, post 11 here, post 12 here



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