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quinta-feira, 15 de junho de 2017

The Power of Conscious Choice - Portugal at its Best

I interrupt the Mother India's Magic series to share some of Portugal's special magic with you.

Last weekend Pedro and I had decided we wanted to go to the beach and in doing so we both chose the weather to be excellent for a good afternoon on the beach.

When Saturday came, the day dawned chilly, as it usually does in this area of Portugal - Caldas da Rainha, which is near the West coast. It was a little bit cloudy and windy and the temperature was not exactly inviting when it comes to lying half naked on the beach. But we had made our choice.

We went for lunch at some friends' place, an interesting family with a set of 13 year old twin girls. I engaded in some inspiring conversations with them, when I found out that for the last 4 years they have been developing their own entrepreneurial skills, creating necklaces, bracelets, crochet flowers, woolen scarves and what not to generate their own pocket money to pay for their surfing classes and not only.

 At the moment they are very enthused about learning how to create unique swimsuits. They love sewing and other handcrafts related to fashion and have created their own brand name: Twiins (Instagram: twiins_pulseiras). They do some fairs during their holidays and are looking into getting their business online. And I, of course, was fascinated with their resourcefulness and encouraged them fully to broaden their scope of potential clients and to always have the courage to go after their dreams, focusing on expanding a few items at a time, rather than many.

At the end of a delicious lunch, blessed by some exquisite Portuguese wine (which I apologise for not knowing the name of but that I can guarantee was amongst the best I have ever tasted), one of the young girls brings two pouches and says they would like to offer me a necklace and a bracelet "so please can you choose the ones you prefer". I was delighted! Such a sweet gift! Here are some pics of their creations - the 100% Portuguese wool and cotton scarves, knitted and hand sewn by them, and the bracelet and necklace I chose. Thank you Carolina and Francisca! You are sure going places in your lives! Congratulations to the parents as well, for bringing these girls up in such a way that they believe in themselves and know that anything is possible.


Scarves


Scarves, bracelet and necklace with joy and gratitude :)


The afternoon turned out to be sunny but not warm and was still quite windy. Nevertheless, we stuck to our choice of going to spend a perfect afternoon at the beach and headed for Baleal, about 20 km from Caldas da Rainha. As we approached the sea, instead of it getting colder, the temperature rose two degrees! And when we parked the car and got out of the car it was hot, sunny and inviting and the sea was serenely beckoning us to dive into it! The surprising thing is that considering the weather in Caldas, the usual consequence is for it to be even worse by the sea, but much on the contrary, it was better.

It was already 5 pm when we arrived and we stayed on until almost 8 pm, under the warm sun, appreciating this magic manifestation of our conscious choice in deep gratitude and overflowing joy.

Life is such a fulfilling experience when we allow ourselves to celebrate it and accept its abundant gifts.







quarta-feira, 7 de junho de 2017

The Power of Conscious Choice - Mother India's Magic 5 - Part I

Day 3 - 9th May 2017 (Day 2 of WEF)

Intensely Powerful


I wake up at 6 am and go down for a swim and a workout at the gym. Did the same yesterday morning. It’s such a privilege! The warm water sparkles invitingly and it feels good to soak in India now that the temperature is bearable. The heat is such that there is a sort of permanent haze and the sky seems not to be as blue as back home. Nonetheless it feels good to lie under its infinite expanse.


The gym has everything I need and it brings solace to my body who is missing our morning walks in the pristine fresh air back home.

I don’t think I mentioned that one of the recommendations to everyone coming to India is “do not drink tap water”. A challenge for me because I do so very naturally. But I manage not to. There are complimentary bottles of water everywhere so it is quite easy to respect this norm.

Breakfast is beyond description. I could not have imagined that people ate such a variety of dishes for breakfast, though considering there are people from over 100 coutries here, it is maybe natural that they cater for all tastes and customs. There is so much food that one feels nourished just by admiring it! J I have to thank the staff over and over again, they are doing such a brilliant job and taking excellent care of us! It’s like we’re a huge royal family. Thank you.

I haven’t been speaking much about the sessions I attended but let me reassure you that they were all extremely inspiring and you can view most of them on WEF TV. I have chosen to focus more on the real life practice of the Power of Conscious Choice, and though the sessions were an integral part of the whole experience, they mostly served as a chatalyst for deeper connections in-between sessions.

Then again, it was all so intense that it is hard to pinpoint all of the relevant parts and I know I will probably forget to mention many important and interesting connections I established at WEF so if you were there and are reading this and I met you today and did not mention you, please forgive me. You are in my heart as much as everyone else, in your own special and unique way. But wait for Part II first ;) Still got many lovely Soul Sisters to acknowledge today.

Carla finds me. She has a lady to introduce: Iman Kamel. She is a film maker born in Cairo but with no particular place she calls home – that’s why her company is called Nomad’s Home Film Production. The reason why Carla wants us to meet is so that we can eventually travel together for the 5 extra days we have both apparently taken off.




Let me explain:  when I was booking my flight to New Delhi I was about to click the button for a flight returning Sunday the 14th, the day right after the Conference ends but it dawned upon me that since I had never been to India and was travelling such a long distance it seemed quite silly not to take a few extra days off and visit at least the Golden Triangle (New Delhi, Agra and Jaipur). So I boldly chose to arrive back home on the 19th – the day of the Fundraising Concert I have been organising together with a Commitee of highschool students. I figured that the whole point being really for them to take responsibility, to understand accountability, develop problem solving skills and resourcefulness, leadership, cooperation and self-confidence amongst other soft skills, this was just the perfect opportunity for them to take over with little or no interference on my part.

Also I knew that although being away for 2 weeks right in the middle of 3rd Term might seem pretty impossible for any teacher, I would find a very simple and appropriate way of getting my classes sorted out and leaving everything well prepared and taken care of in my absence. After all my Conscious Choice for my life is absolute absence of Drama. Ease, flow and simplicity, in balance and harmony, respecting myself and in doing so respecting life and all that it contains, with boundless love and joyful fulfilment, gracefully dancing to exitence’s tune in complete gratitude. Summarising: living in complete and total surrender to my Essence. 

 And that’s how I booked my flight. Nevertheless, I only booked the Hotel up until Satuday the 13th and chose not to plan the 5 extra days beforehand because I knew I would be meeting other people with similar intentions and that we could enhance each other's experiences. Only afterwards did I notice that it was a very balanced choice: 6 days of immersion in India - what one would call leisure - and 6 days of WEF - could be considered work, but I find it hard to it define that way because belief systems around work usually conceptualise it as somehow entailing effort. I do not see work in that way though, so I might as well call it by its name. You know, as I feel it, for me work, play and passion are all one.



Back to how Iman came into the picture.

At first Iman mentions she’d like to visit Agra and Jaipur, maybe. But then again she’s been there over 10 years ago and hated it, other than it is a bit too hot for her. But she feels she would much appreciate travelling with me so she’s a bit indecisive.  I, on the other hand, don’t mind the heat so much. We do get very high temperatures in Portugal in summer. And being so close to these places, it seems like a wasted opportunity not to go and behold them.

Anyhow, I’ve got to go now. I have a session in about 10 minutes.


terça-feira, 6 de junho de 2017

The Power of Conscious Choice - Mother India's Magic 4 Part II

8th May 2017 - Day 1 of WEF

Part II



Now back to Carla, her video camera and the heart to heart connection that clicked between us in such a precious way. Thank you Carla, for making me feel at home at my first WEF Conference experience.

The day moves on in a crescendo of heartfelt connections. There is an underlying feeling of connectedness here, Soul Sisters gathering to share their unique inspiration, their gifts, strengths, transparence, wisdom, love and joy. An energy that opens up every heart and that leads to deep transformation, for some in a more revolutionary way, for others it is a click of knowingness, for others a discovery of wisdom, freedom, you name it. There is definitely a peaceful Presence that leads to Trust. Dr Harbeen Arora sure has created something extra-ordinary here – together with the “superhero” team she has gathered. She is the example of total surrender to God within her, serving life’s grandest purpose: the complete fulfilment and realisation of ALL. I would also like to leave a special thank you to Dr Harbeen Arora's husband, Dr Vinay Rai. It is usually said that behind a great man there is always a great woman. In this case we can say the opposite. In any case it means one and the same thing: we are ALL ONE. 


Congratulations to the Presenters who did such a great job






In the opening session Dr Harbeen (please click to view) says something like this: "when you see a sister shine, do not envy her, help her shine even more and celebrate it with her". Such an important message in today's competitive environment. Another amazing thing here is exactly that the is no competitiveness but rather honour and respect for everyone's achievements and the will to enhance each other further and further. 

I have a session today: "Intuition and Belief System" and am on the same panel as Michelle Araújo, a Brazilian  psychotherapist and tarot practitioner (http://www.dejavutarot.co.uk/) who now lives in London. Maybe it’s the fact that she is fun to be with, maybe it’s her honesty and wisdom, whatever it is, we connect. She invites me to stay at her place whenever I come to London and I am happy to accept. I also offer her my hospitality in Portugal, as will happen repeatedly throughout these days.


Michelle receiving her Award for Iconic Women Creating a Better World for ALL


Brenda Cuby (http://www.bctrainingsolutions.com/) , whom I had recommended for the WEF Conference arrives today. I am so happy she made it! Brenda works in Corporate Coaching and her unique approach generates accountability in her clients, thus leading to successful outcomes. She is based in Gibraltar - a little piece if England right beside me :) We met when I decided to go and checkout Gibraltar, which is an offshore, and its business potentials. I temporarily rented a virtual office there and when I decided to go and see it for myself, the owner said Brenda and I just had to meet because we had a lot in common through our work. She happened to be there, we met and since then have established a good affiliation potential between both of our businesses, which I am sure will flourish in ways we cannot imagine right now. So here we are in New Delhi.



You know what’s amazing about an event with about 1600 people? It’s the fact that we naturally keep on bumping into the people we are somehow related to, acquainted or connected to, even in the midst of so many people! 

It is in this special way that I find myself speaking to this lady whom I am sure I know. It suddenly dawns on her that I am Tania – the reason why she is here! We didn’t know each other before personally but I had posted some info about the WEF on facebook, saying that whoever wanted to be a speaker there could contact me so that I could recommend them. Somehow Lynn Hope Thomas (Lynn Thomas – the Hope is her wise addition) comes across my post, though she is no tone of my friends and says “yes, I want to be there”. And that’s that. We love meeting each other face to face! Once again that connection. And do you know what? She is Michelle Araújo’s roommate!!! Lynn is a turnaround specialist who provides solutions for change, both in the corporate world and in private life. She is the author of Breaking Thorugh Loss: One Powerful Story, One ScientificMethod.



And to think that they actually captured us meeting in this fortuitous way on camera :)

Anu Krishna is also in the audience. Once again that click. She comes up to me at the end to congratulate. She is Personal Transformation Coach and Creative Writer from Bombay and now living in Bangalore, founder of Word Weave and we have so much in common! I ask her if she would like to participate in the interview series and she gladly accepts. We record it on my phone but somehow it is not stored. Possibly the second attempt will be better especially because Carla had the video camera which she might not mind to lend for this purpose.



Anu is the first and only Soul Sister at WEF New Delhi who offers to share Shakti Bandhan with me through the tying of a symbolic bond. Precious! Thank you Anu <3 Nevertheless I add that Shakti Bandhan happened all the time, throughout the entire event with everyone I connected with.

Here is a short explanation of Shakti Bandhan (from All Ladies League Site):

"Let’s ALL celebrate the spirit of sisterhood and our own Divine Feminine:

Oct 5th is “World Sisterhood Day,” or “Shakti Bandhan” as we’d say in India. ‘Shakti’ means the divine feminine force of creation and ‘Bandhan’ means bond. Shakti Bandhan thus signifies connecting with our own innate divine feminine power and also offering this empowering bond of connection in sisterhood to amplify every woman’s power, internally and externally.
Our inclusive vision of global sisterhood is that no woman should ever feel alone and should always have a supportive soulsister to reach out to.

Types of Shakti flowing in ALL:

We have it ALL to feel empowered & extend the empowered feeling to another.
  • We already have innate in ourselves various creative powers.
  • Like: dedication, perseverance, faith, will, helpfulness…and so on.
  • We empower and can be empowered through these forces or Shaktis.
  • Example: when we offer empathy, we empower another; when we receive encouragement, we get empowered by another; when we reciprocate love and care, both get empowered.

Celebrating Shakti Bandhan on 5 October, or before, or after, or anytime:

  • Is an occasion to remind ourselves that we are empowered already and can also give the gift of the empowerment to another by standing with them in sisterhood (and brotherhood).
  • Is an opportunity for women to honor their own unique womanhood and make visible the sacred importance of sisterhood.
  • Is a time to awaken the seamlessness of sisterhood across socio-economic-cultural-generational et al boundaries and unite in spirit and soul as One world of women.

How to Celebrate:

Celebrating Shakti Bandhan is about women tying a simple thread to women and soulsisters in their lives to honor their bond of supporting, protecting and nurturing each other in a myriad different ways.
You need a simple thread! – could be a string, ribbon, bangle, bracelet made of beads, totems, or anything you like – with a heart full of love to reach out to the wonderful women in your lives who have always been there for you and for whom you’d want to be there.
Expand the circle. Include more. Inspire more. Uplift more. Any way you’d like."



The day is long and love keeps me awake. So many beautiful people have crossed my path and it just the first day!

When I finally go to bed after midnight my roommate PhionahMusumba (founder of Malkia Foundation) whom I had met very briefly this morning when she came to leave her bags in the room, is now already sleeping.


I feel comfortable with her, though we had never even spoken before and apart from the fact that she browses the net on her mobile at all hours in the night and snores a little, I am quite happy with us sharing the room. I am sure we have much to learn from each other and I welcome the opportunity to make yet another good friend. 


Note: Just a footnote about Carla's magic video camera :) I had 5 sessions at WEF, four of which are recorded and available on the WEF TV channel. Nevertheless one isn't, and do you know which one it is? Today's session "Intuition and Belief System" which happens to be the only one Carla recorded, on the very day we met :) I'll post it online... eventually ;) Anyhow, just wanted to reinforce the point that nothing is ever missing. 

segunda-feira, 5 de junho de 2017

The Power of Conscious Choice - Mother India's Magic 4 - Part I

Day 2 - 8th May 2017 - WEF (www.wef.org.in) begins

Part I

Note: the videos of most of the sessions at Annual WEF New Delhi 8th to 13th May are here: http://weftv.org/ and the photos are here: http://www.wef.org.in/wef2017-pictures/

By now I am fairly acquaited with the layout of the rooms and main plenary room so it's easy to get around. Before being here it seemed so huge and overwhelming but now that I'm here it is quite simple to manage. "The map is not the territory" and we can never know how something is until we are living the experience. That's why I refrain from creating expectations and imagining outcomes. It is a waste of my Now moment.

Right after the first session I choose to be at (Beyond Stereotypes: deconstructing the mind of a true entrepreneur - Hari Thalapalli, Rashmi Chopra, Sagareeka BhatiaShabnam Singhal)



I meet CarlaHorta (CarlaH Hairstudio – www.carlah.nl). She is so brilliant. A blessing to meet. She immediately offers me a small lucky pair of bone china Dutch slippers for me to carry with me for good luck.



 She tells me that she has lived in 15 countries and was born in Angola. Her mother and brother live in Portugal and she lives in the Netherlands. She has a hair salon where she has clients from  93 countries and has a project in India where she teaches youngsters her trade during 10 days a year, always in different regions. She then offers a kit to each student which she pays for herself and they are ready to start their own hair salon. I invite her to be part of my interview series: " What makes people thrive? - How to live an insanely abundant life". She not only accepts but has a video camera!!!! So we record it in a quiet place and she offers her camera, which is just what I need, for further interviews that I will be undertaking here.


I had not really dwelt upon how I would be recording this series of interviews – my mobile maybe, the tablet I brought along, but apparently my reality had something much better in store: an actual video camera!

I’ll make a pause here to tell you a bit about how I have come to realize that abundance comes in all forms and mostly money is the least part of it.

This happens when we open up to life’s constant flow so that it can pass through us, not holding on to things for fear of not having enough, not retaining today to prevent lack tomorrow.

My inner wisdom has taught me that there is always more than enough, that nothing is ever missing and that when we let go, we open up space for constant abundance. The way my Essence taught me this was by showing me this image:

·         there was me standing in the middle of nowhere, not knowing what was to come next and learning to let go of what was there before. As I stepped forward, firm ground materialised and as I took my foot off to step again, it disappeared. Nothing behind, nothing in front but the permanent trust that the Now Moment is always purely complete, even when I don’t know it beforehand. My Essence taught me to choose for me and live step by step, trusting that reality manifests in perfect synch with those  choices of mine, not having to know how, just choosing and going forth.

At first it felt pretty unsafe and awkward, but with practise I came to realise the freedom in this, the lightness, the ease and above all the absolute simplicity.

Having said this, let’s go back to this love affair with India.

I do not own a tablet. I don’t need one either. I would not use it on a daily basis if I had one because I use my PC, which I chose not to bring with me to India in order to travel as light as possible. Explaining further, I believe that if we all consume less and share more, the Earth will be able to rebalance and be a much more energy efficient place, freer and freer from the weight of our abuse of its generous resources.

So I obseved that having a tablet for these two weeks in India would be practical. On one hand I love to write and would not be wasting paper, let alone not having to carry loads of pages around. On the other hand I love to read and had several PDF books I had been meaning to take a look at but hand’t had time to do so lately. Reading PDF’s on my mobile would be rather small and the tablet would fulfill that funcion as well. I didn’t intend to buy one just to use for two weeks so I started asking friends if they had a tablet they would not be using for the next two weeks and whether they would feel comfortable lending it me. After a few inquiries a friend promptly said “of course, I will lend you mine”. I must say it was a much better one than I had first imagined! Huge screen, memory and resolution. Just perfect.

I needed a backpack because I had decided to travel as light as possible. My daughter lent me hers. I needed a pair or two of super comfortable sandals. My buddy Joana received two bags full from a client of hers, just when I was about to shop around for a pair! She then lent me two pairs for my journey J

I needed a few extra blouses. My mum had some perfect ones for this purpose as well as some light trousers and a beautiful bracelet and earrings.

Another friend lent me two scarves which had actually been given to her by a friend who had brought them from India!

There were yet more trinkets being lent to me from here and there which I didn’t bring along. I was spoilt for choice.


This is what I call energy efficiency: an efficient use of the resources available, irrespective of how they manifest. Everything and everyone in our reality is connected and the more we open up to this, the more it all flows effortlessly. In the same way that things, opportunities, circumstances, people flow our way, so do we have a magic touch in other people’s realities. 

To be continued... 

terça-feira, 30 de maio de 2017

The Power of Conscious Choice - Mother India's Magic 3

Day 1 - 7th May 2017


I did not book a room for tonight because Dr Harbeen (the Global Chairperson for Women Economic Forum and All Ladies League) told me that if the Hotel had the room ready I could check in as early as 9 am so for just a few hours it didn't make sense to book a room.


I arrived at the hotel at about 2 am and at 6.30 am I decided to go and see a bit of New Delhi, leaving my backpack at the luggage storeroom at the hotel. It was already about 32 degrees at that time. My choices as to travelling around Delhi on my own are very clear and simple: I travel with an open heart, in acceptance of local culture and customs, in appeciation and gratitude, safely, allowing no one to disrespect me in the same way that I respect others.

Some people look at the statistics – they subjectively say it is the capital city leader of rape in the world. I, however, simply choose. And I chose to travel in the underground and visit some monuments.

Apparently the underground is one of the safest ways for a woman to travel alone in New Delhi but I was unaware of this fact. So much for making Conscious Choices. It even has a carriage just for women, an emergency police help line for women and places on the platforms just for women. All over the place there are security checks and... there is air conditioning;) so it is bliss after moments spent up in the unrelenting heat.



I did not use the women's carriages though and was very happy with the experience anyhow. Respect breeds respect and self-respect is a statement in itself. We do indeed attract what we believe in and what we are bringing out into the world around us.

I started by buying a token for one journey which seemed fine. That was because at the station where I first entered the underground - Aerocity - there was hardly anyone comparing to the humungous crowd I walked into at the central station where I got off to change lines! When I first arrived at Aerocity metro station I had thought there were quite a lot of people walking around in the underground considering the time it was. Little did I know I had seen nothing yet.

I soon realised getting tokens for each journey was a task in itself. Everyone just steps in front of each other with no sense of order whatsover which means that for a newcomer like me it seems like a never ending story, this song and dance of getting my turn. I decided to get a rechargable pass and went to another queue. The guys (there are only guys in queues) kept on pointing me off to the front and I kept on saying I'd wait for my turn but I eventually surrendered after much insistence and jumped the line right up to the front. Just as I was getting ready to ask for my pass a lady steps in front of me and I'm there, observing how the people around me get ahead.

 I manage and get my card. Phew! That took care of queues for the day! At least for tickets. This card is like the Oyster card in London or the green card we get in Lisbon's underground but with a huge difference: it is valid for 10 years!!!!

There were as many people in the underground at 6.30 am as there are in Lisbon at rush hour during the week and it was Sunday here!

My first impressions of immersion in India were mixed, completely in tune with what I had read so many times from travellers exploring this land of contrasts.

Mother India is a diverse, intense experience of Compassion, Patience and complete Acceptance where extreme poverty is seen as a law of life. There is an underlying innocence in these people, an ease I cannot put into words.

There are moments when the noise can be deafening, others when an unfathomable silence can be felt. There is an enlightened wisdom in the air, blended with a somewhat childish way of going about every day life.


The broken streets and derelict buildings are suffused by bright colours that somehow mitigate the initial shock the whole portrait brings about. There is rubbish everywhere but stangely enough it does not reek. In fact it smells of spices and incense and though it is terribly hot at this time of the year (apparently May is the hottest month! – I wonder why the Global WEF event is in May?) somehow the garbage does not give off the odour one would expect.


 Mostly people on the streets have no notion of garbage bins, possibly because the garbage collection system simply cannot keep up with the amount of rubbish made every day. Have I told you about the amount of people here?

Anyhow, apparently recycling somehow gets done (though not nearly enough to stop the streets from being consistently littered). Plastic can be worht money so some of the rubbish gets collected to hand in for recycling. Water bottles all have a recommendation on them: "crush after use". The reason is that if not, water bottles will be filled with tap water and sold again.

There were moments during my morning touristic exploration when I felt I could no longer take it and then somehow bounced back to wanting more. The racket, the temperature, the amount of people, the traffic… and then again the beauty, the feeling of freedom that comes from na organic culture, the lightness, something that transcends physical heaviness and that I cannot define… So much so that I ended up arriving back at the hotel at around 2.30 pm, with a full heart, my head buzzing with the noise and the heat outside, my body aching for a rest after not having slept more than 6 hours in total over the last two nights. A world of contrasting acceptance in me and around me :)




One fifth of the world's population lives on this land - about 1.3 billion people. And most of them are in cities. In Delhi there are people everywhere at all times and the traffic is ceaseless, no matter at what time. There are people heading for work at all hours and as far as I have seen people welcome work, even if it's at the strangest hours. The average lowest salary is 400 to 600 rupees a month - about 8,50€, though there are huge differences in this area and some earn millions. In fact some of the richest men in the world are Indian. So opposing contrasts are the rule of the day. Over eighteen million people live in Delhi and many of them are entrepreneurs – even the tuc owners, the fruit and vegetable stand owners, the chai vendors and so and so on. It is a haven of entrepreneurs who however would be much better off in the vast land where there is space, good land to cultivate, no pollution… I suppose the dream of the city is a worldwide exodus of the masses which I have a little trouble to fully understand but that is a fact anyway.

Back to my Hotel room. Perfect is all I can say. I have been given a roommate but she will only be checking in tomorrow. I don't know her but I trust we will get on just fine:)

After a well deserved rest I decided to go downstairs to do my registration in the Conference and check things out. The amount of preparation that goes into an event this size is amazing. Literally over 100 people working to put everything together technically and logistically, let alone the WEF/ALL staff and volunteers, also 100+ and the hotel staff. An event of massive proportions.
My dear friend Getrude Matshe could not come this time but has connected all of her friends via facebook messenger so we arrange to meet downstairs. I first meet Jessica Sanchez, founder of Spiritual Wellness MD, Pauline Crawford-Omps, Ambassador of Magical Conversations (http://voiceatthetable.com/our-team/dr-pauline-crawford/) and a bit later on Tiffany Rashel, who has managed to be here against all odds, even when her Visa was denied she insisted and insisted until the very last minute and managed to come. Congratulations on the persistence Tiffany (https://www.tiffanyrashel.com/)!  … They are all part of the Advisory Executive Committee for WEF New Mexico and Grenada which will be right after WEF New Delhi. I am also supposed to be part of this Advisory Executive Committee but I have relinquished the post because I realized I couldn’t possibly manage to do a good job helping organize these events with all of the other projects going on in my life at the moment. I believe it is more productive for all if we are able to realize from the beginning whether we can take on certain projects or not, than to say yes to all of them and then not do any of them properly.

Meanwhile I congratulate all of these wonderful ladies for pulling the event through – it is almost happening and they are here too J WEF New Mexico starts on the 22nd May.
Back to WEF New Delhi…


The opening dinner was a blessing of abundance in all senses, which I am humbly thankful for. It was held out in the hotel’s garden and it was a feast of beauty, scents and tastes. A great start to the upcoming 6 days…







And now let's fast forward to day 2 - day 1of the event itself.


quinta-feira, 25 de maio de 2017

The Power of Conscious Choice - Mother India's Magic 2

The Power of Conscious Choice
Mother India's Magic - Part 2


Day 0 - back on the 29th September 2016, my 44th birthday anniversary


 For my personal new year I chose to share my passion for life in complete fulfilment to a wider extent, inviting more speaking, writing and coaching opportunities to come my way. I also chose to create more opportunities for students I work with and people in general to be the change they wish to see in the world, inspiring them to believe in their dreams and to make them happen, meanwhile benefitting a greater whole than they and I ever expected we could possibly achieve. I have been doing this all along but now my choice was to go global.

I contacted Getrude Matshe after having seen her TED talk and deciding that the funds we were to raise from a series of paintings done by our English students would go to her Africa Alive Education Foundation. She not only gleefully accepted but offered to come over to our school and meet us, paint with us and talk to our students about her compelling life story.




As soon as she came out of the airport we instantly connected at such a deep level it was as if we had known each other forever, long lost sisters reunited. We have since established a very special friendship that I am ever so thankful for.


In Cascais, right after picking Getrude up at the airport


As a school we are now supporting Getrude's endeavour to get a container with 65000 books and 200 computers to the Maziviza district in Zimbabwe and have done so by raising funds in several ways, as well as by sharing her story and project, thus getting more people and schools involved in this campaign.




And she brought me this wonderful opportunity of being not only here in New Delhi but at any other of the WEF Conferences I choose to participate in around the world.

I decided to start with this one because it is the Annual event and brings together about 2000 people from over 140 countries.

 It has been a succession of gifts all along.

First I chose to have as little costs as possible with this since I did not seem to have the cash to be able to come to India. Nevertheless I knew that by simply accepting the way to come would carve itself accordingly.

And alas, I was not only invited to be a Speaker but also part of the Advisory Executive Committee, recommending themes and speakers and thus having my Conference and meals fee waived off. 

My sweetheart Pedro had already been to India a few years ago so with his help I started looking into the whole India experience. I found a super cheap flight and as I was going on a business endeavour, the school paid for it. The great thing was that he asked me "why don't you stay a few more days?" And it was pretty obvious that since I would be at the Conference for 6 days I would not be seeing much of real India, so coming back the day after the Conference was a waste of an excellent opportunity.

Since I was travelling so far in the first place it made sense to stay a few more days to at least be able to visit what is called the Golden Triangle (New Delhi, Agra and Jaipur). So I made a balanced choice - 6 days of work and 6 days of leisure. I chose to not book anything for the 5 extra days after the Conference, leaving an open space to accomodate suggestions and travel companions that I was sure to encounter during the Conference. Having made my initial choices, I just knew that everything would simply flow accordingly so I trusted and let go. Thank you Pedro for encouraging me to be bold enough to take not one but two weeks off - even though the first one was work related :) Had it been a few years ago I would never have been able to conceive leaving my workplace for 2 weeks right in the middle of third term! And the fact that I decided to take this step provided perfect solutions so that all of my classes were taken care of before I left and after I came back, with no hassle. 

Furthermore, I chose my accomodation to be clean and comfortable, easily accessible and low-cost. Having booked at a hotel about 2 km away from the Conference venue, I was then offered a special fee which allowed me to change to the 5 star Conference Hotel - just because the organization wants me and all of us present here to have the best possible experience in India and it is scorching hot at this time of the year.

I asked if there were any meals included today (7th May), since the Conference only starts tomorrow and was kindly invited by Dr Harbeen Arora, Global Chairperson of the Women Economic Forum and one of the most beautiful women (within and without) I have ever met, to attend the Reception Dinner later on tonight.

I was contacted via LinkedIn by Sofia Batalha, Consul for the Portuguese Embassy in New Delhi who kindly offered to have her chauffeur pick me up at the airport since I was arriving at 1am. She actually picked me up herself and then went on to give me a great contact to help me plan my visit to Agra and eventually other locations after the Conference and also kindly invited me to dinner with the Portuguese Ambassador at his official Residence the following Thursday.

Let me just mention that my clear and conscious choice for this entire experience is ease, trust, flow and simplicity, connecting with the enlightened energy of India and establishing as many win/win partnerships for life as possible, creating longlasting, meaningful bonds.

So far so good. I was lovingly taken to the airport by my Prince. That's how I like to call Pedro, the man who corresponds perfectly to what I have chosen to experience in my intimate relationship.
The flights were right on time, super comfortable and everyone has been very helpful. I actually don't know where the 8 hour flight went! It seemed to breeze away, not to mention the 2h30 flight to Frankfurt which only left me 1h15 between flights, for me to catch the connection on the opposite side of the airport. Was all perfect. As soon as I arrived at the platform where one catches the fast shuttle connection to Terminal 1, the shuttle was rolling in. Got to my gate when boarding started. All just on time, no waste. Upon arriving in New Delhi I went past the Visa control in about 5 minutes - forgot to mention that I applied for the e-tourist Visa which was supposed to take 72 hours to arrive in my inbox but was there in less than 24 hours...




To be continued…

terça-feira, 23 de maio de 2017

The Power of Conscious Choice - Mother India's Magic 1

The Power of Conscious Choice
 Mother India's Magic - Part 1


A few months ago my dear friend and Soul Sister Getrude Matshe recommended me for a very special event: the Women Economic Forum - a global conference that has the aim to empower Women worldwide to come to a new level of self-respect, balance,cooperation, success and gender equality, with the full support of Men as well, at all levels and in all walks of life.



I was deeply grateful and honoured to have been given this opportunity to participate and speak at such an event, with the bonus of being able to make profitable "win/win" partnerships, leveraging my online language teaching business and overall writing, speaking and coaching passions to a new level. Of course I accepted and having done so has been nothing short of magical.

This Global Conference takes place in many countries the world over all year round. Places such as England, the Netherlands, the USA and the Caribbean, Cyprus, Iceland, the Maldives, Bhutan, Portugal, Australia, New Zealand to name some.

 The Annual Conference is in New Delhi, India from the 8th to the 13th of May this year and I have just arrived.

 Day 1 - 7th May 2017 


 It is 3am of the 7th May and I have decided to share this experience with you, since my theme for the Conference is The Power of Conscious Choice and all of that which has come my way derives from me living up to exactly this principle which I not only Trust but also witness in my life each and every day in graceful gratitude.


Hi from New Delhi :)



To be continued...